Slowing things down
When conversations keep going in circles, it can be hard to know where to begin. Couples counselling offers space to slow things down, understand what is happening between you, and explore what comes next.
What brings couples to counselling?
You may have one clear concern, or a collection of small difficulties that have become harder to manage. These are some of the experiences people may want to discuss when considering relationship counselling.
Conversations that go nowhere
An everyday disagreement becomes a familiar argument, or important subjects are avoided because talking feels too difficult. Counselling may help you examine what happens in those conversations and explore different ways of responding.
Less closeness than you would like
You may still care about one another while missing affection, companionship or time together. Naming what connection means to each of you can be a starting point for understanding the distance.
Trust has been unsettled
After dishonesty, a broken agreement or another painful experience, it can be difficult to know what comes next. Counselling can offer space to consider the impact, what each person needs and whether rebuilding is possible.
Pressure from daily life
Work, money, parenting and caring responsibilities can leave little room for the relationship. It may help to look at expectations, competing demands and how responsibilities are discussed.
Differences that feel hard to navigate
Partners may have different priorities, expectations or ways of showing care. Exploring those differences can help make needs clearer, without assuming that agreement on everything is the goal.
Uncertainty about the future
You may be unsure whether you want the same things, or what you want from counselling. You can ask about suitability before booking; you do not need a complete explanation in order to make an enquiry.
Room for both of you
Couples counselling for adults in Wollongong, Dapto and the Illawarra, with online sessions via Zoom.
The Process
1. Ask about availability
2. Begin the conversation
3. Explore the next steps
Ask about availability, your preferred location or Zoom, or a question about arranging a session. Please leave sensitive personal or relationship details out of your initial enquiry.
Bring what feels important. The first session is a starting point for understanding your concerns.
Explore your concerns and possible next steps with Isaac.
Isaac Bailey
Isaac Bailey, BASS-C, MASS-C, PACFA Clinical Counsellor and Supervisor. Couples counselling for adults in Wollongong, Dapto and the Illawarra, with online sessions via Zoom.
Couples counselling may not be appropriate where there is violence, intimidation or coercive control. If you have concerns about your safety, consider seeking individual support before arranging a joint session.
Fees
50-minute couples sessions:
Before 5pm $155 +GSTÂ
After 5pm $165 +GST